{"id":178,"date":"2014-02-22T09:23:00","date_gmt":"2014-02-22T14:23:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/162.243.23.127:8081\/2014\/02\/22\/10-common-reasons-you-cant-get-organized\/"},"modified":"2014-02-22T09:23:00","modified_gmt":"2014-02-22T14:23:00","slug":"10-common-reasons-you-cant-get-organized","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/peggywbarnes.com\/?p=178","title":{"rendered":"10 Common Reasons You Can&#8217;t Get Organized"},"content":{"rendered":"<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/3.bp.blogspot.com\/-80G1OajtrYI\/UwfYjQm1vRI\/AAAAAAAABJo\/K5dLSJbtOeI\/s1600\/HELP.jpg\" style=\"margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" src=\"http:\/\/3.bp.blogspot.com\/-80G1OajtrYI\/UwfYjQm1vRI\/AAAAAAAABJo\/K5dLSJbtOeI\/s1600\/HELP.jpg\" height=\"148\" width=\"320\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\">I hear it all the time&#8230;HELP! &nbsp;I work and I work and I work and I just cannot get organized.&nbsp;<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\">I can give you 10 of the most common reasons why you can&#8217;t get organized.&nbsp;<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\">1. &nbsp;You are trying to organize like someone else thinks&#8230;.not how you think.<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\">2. &nbsp;You are trying to organize too much at one time.<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\">3. &nbsp;You are not willing to let go.<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\">4. &nbsp;You are not staying focused for any length of time.<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\">5. &nbsp;You are not taking the next step&#8230;.are you hanging up your robe, are you putting the trash in the trash can, the dirty dish in the dishwasher, are you taking the designated donate items to a donation location, etc.<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\">6. &nbsp;You do not have a home for everything<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\">7. &nbsp;You have not scheduled time to organize<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\">8. &nbsp;You have unreal expectations about how long it will take to undo what has taken years to do.<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\">9. &nbsp;You want to talk about getting organized more than you really want to exert the effort to change habits and ways of thinking.<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\">10. You have life reasons such as sickness &#8211; physical or mental or you have way too many things on your life plate. &nbsp;<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\">All of the above are legitimate reasons but all can be overcome. &nbsp;You just have to be honest enough, with yourself, to know the reasons why and see what you can do to combat those obstacles, because you truly can combat them. &nbsp; &nbsp;I&#8217;ll tell you a little secret&#8230;&#8230;..if you look at the top 9 reasons, just do the opposite of what the sentence says and you can overcome that obstacle. &nbsp;<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\">For example, #1 &#8211;<i>&nbsp;<\/i><\/span><span style=\"font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\"><i>You are trying to organize like someone else thinks&#8230;.not how you think<\/i>.<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\">What you say to yourself is &#8211; how do I think and what will work for me?<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\">#2 &#8211;&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\">&nbsp;<i>You are trying to organize too much at one time<\/i><\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\">What you say to yourself is &#8211; I am going to organize one shelf&#8230;..not the whole kitchen.&nbsp;<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\">See how that works. &nbsp;The only one that will not work with is reason #10. &nbsp;There are things in life that are really out of your control but even in those times, you do have more control than you think&#8230;&#8230;sometimes you just have to do things you don&#8217;t really feel like doing. &nbsp;<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\"><b><i>Take a look at the list above, do any of them ring true to you? &nbsp;<\/i><\/b><\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\"><b><i>There are other reasons, too, what are some of yours?&nbsp;<\/i><\/b><\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\"><br \/><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I hear it all the time&#8230;HELP! 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