{"id":716,"date":"2019-01-02T08:45:19","date_gmt":"2019-01-02T13:45:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/peggywbarnes.com\/?p=716"},"modified":"2019-01-02T08:45:19","modified_gmt":"2019-01-02T13:45:19","slug":"the-photos-and-the-stories-behind-them","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/peggywbarnes.com\/?p=716","title":{"rendered":"The Photos and The Stories Behind Them"},"content":{"rendered":"

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I stared at this beautiful photo of a couple I know.\u00a0\u00a0 Perfect setting.\u00a0 Gorgeous couple.\u00a0 Smiles.\u00a0 Flawless.<\/p>\n

I found out the story behind the photo.\u00a0 Hateful conversations.\u00a0 Bruises.\u00a0 Tears. Anger.<\/p>\n

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I stared at the family photo, all dressed in shades of blue on the beach.\u00a0 Laughter. Hugs. Perfection.<\/p>\n

I found out the story behind the photo. Pain. Broken trusts. Lies.<\/p>\n

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There are so many of us who look at photos on social media and make an instant assessment of someone\u2019s life.<\/p>\n

Look at how happy they are.<\/p>\n

Look at how sweet they are.<\/p>\n

Look at that beautiful family.<\/p>\n

Look at how gorgeous she is.<\/p>\n

Look at how handsome he is.<\/p>\n

Look at how cute their kids are dressed.<\/p>\n

Look at that house.<\/p>\n

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We can just imagine their home life.\u00a0 Clean homes, no yelling, happy meals around the table, playing games together, cooking together.\u00a0 You know\u2026..the perfect couple, the perfect family, the perfect vacation, the perfect life.<\/p>\n

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When we look at those photos and then we look around, we begin to be discontent.\u00a0 We begin to see all the ugliness in our lives.\u00a0 We begin to see the wrinkles, the gray hair, the old furniture, the old clothes, the temper tantrums in our children, the staleness in our marriage, the extra weight you and your spouse are both carrying, the financial struggles you have, the frustrations of not having it all.<\/p>\n

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I pray for this New Year you will not focus on what other people have but will focus on what you can do to make your life better.\u00a0 Don\u2019t compare\u2026\u2026.live your best life.\u00a0 Quit the envy\u2026\u2026.start taking action in your own life.\u00a0 Don\u2019t look at one photograph and one instance and believe it is representative of the whole of a person\u2019s life\u2026\u2026..it is not.<\/p>\n

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What you focus on will expand\u2026..pay attention to your focus in 2019.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

  I stared at this beautiful photo of a couple I know.\u00a0\u00a0 Perfect setting.\u00a0 Gorgeous couple.\u00a0 Smiles.\u00a0 Flawless. I found out the story behind the photo.\u00a0 Hateful conversations.\u00a0 Bruises.\u00a0 Tears. Anger.   I stared at the family photo, all dressed in shades of blue on the beach.\u00a0 Laughter. Hugs. Perfection. I found out the story […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-716","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/peggywbarnes.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/716","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/peggywbarnes.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/peggywbarnes.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/peggywbarnes.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/peggywbarnes.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=716"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/peggywbarnes.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/716\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/peggywbarnes.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=716"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/peggywbarnes.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=716"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/peggywbarnes.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=716"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}